Tuesday, September 6, 2016
How To Survive Your Storms And Grow Stronger
Don't confuse your path with your destination. Just because it's storming now doesn't mean that you aren't headed for sunshine. Unknown
The storm has passed. It's quiet now. An eerie quiet. As if waiting for the next devastating gust of wind to come and carry away whatever is in its path. Waiting for more tree branches and debris thrown to the ground, for more flooding with homes and lives destroyed. I wait. But the storm is gone. And now everything bravely comes alive again. I know as I watch critters work with nature to recover and rebuild their lives.
I know from the sound of birds calling to each other from their secret places where they found refuge. I hear their happy whistles and chirping, now free to do what birds do--gloriously spread their wings to join others in search of new horizons and rebuild their nests for new families to replace those lost in the storm.
I know from squirrels running up and down and hopping over wet branches planning their next adventure. Calling to each other, chattering and flipping their tails in happy pursuit of food perhaps thrown to the rain soaked earth by heavy winds. Happy sounds of creatures.
I know from lizards scurrying about, or peeking out from under drain pipes to find a dry spot to survey the territory. Their mouths snapping open and shut, and their heads bobbing back and forth frantically pursuing their next move. Lost in this new dry world, with maybe no memory of where they were or what they were doing when the storm ran them for shelter.
And I know from the way my own heart jumps as I feel the sun's warmth on my bare arms; and breathe in the smell of crisp air washed clean by heavy rains; and watch bright sparkling sunbeams dancing on grateful plants reaching up with outstretched arms. The clouds are gone, and the sky is as clear as DeLeon Springs where I swam growing up. I smile at nature coming alive, venturing out. Each to its own identity, being what they are when the storm has passed, and a new day arrives to begin again. What a world to behold.
When I experience one of those storms, I think of the human storms that arise within each of us when our calm lives are turned upside down. Our feelings are much like the qualities found in the storms of nature. In one of your own life storms you may experience a rain of tears over a painful loss; or feel you've been caught up in a cruel tornado tossing your life in a hundred directions; or you're out of breath treading water, and going deeper all the time; or a belief you've held your whole life suddenly toppling to the ground.
Be encouraged...Not every storm is a disaster. Some are simply cleansing moments. Gregory Prince
When you're hit by a life storm, you can do whatever you can to change its course, or you can ride it out. And one way or another, your storm will pass. But until it does, a positive attitude is necessary. Storms may stall, as nature's storms do, so watch for signs that it's still moving out. There's less turmoil, your stress level is dropping, each day becomes a little easier. And it has given you a lesson and made you stronger.
Remember to play after every storm. Mattie Stepanek
After the storm passes, don't be satisfied with just knowing the storm is gone. Walk in the sunshine and smile at the critters. And take time to nurture and care for yourself. Then focus on rebuilding, and use what you've learned to make your life better than before. Is there debris from the past you can release now? Did your storm reveal strengths you didn't know you had? Explore and set your sights on a new tomorrow.
As each day passes, look for positive changes, and make new discoveries about yourself. You may be surprised at what you'll find as a result of experiencing the storm.
I wish you a peaceful heart and new tomorrows.